Wednesday, 14 March 2018


When it comes to dealing with the opposite sex, don't rely on your brain especially when there is a little chemistry from one person to another. Once there is a silent attraction, either emotional, physical or sexual, you can't handle that relationship, no you are not smart enough!

God Himself warns: "Let he that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall." He didn't say, "let he that standeth" but "he that THINKETH he standeth." When you think you can handle that little kiss, the little flirty messages that makes your heart race at 360 degree and yearn for sex or deep romance, when you start having strange feelings for someone other than your spouse, you are looking for serious trouble. FLEE is what the Bible says: Run, vamoose, disappear, jet off, scrap! Fly out, disengage, cut off, say bye bye to the relationship and get your bearing!

When a man is hell bent on slaying a lady and she still tells me she's smart and can handle him, I used to laugh out loud. My dear, you are deceiving yourself big time! That guy will have sex with you neat! No matter how intelligent a lady is, if she does not set boundaries around her and have a mentor she's accountable to, men will have a field day sleeping with her and breaking her heart over and over again!

It's very easy to pull a man down or destroy him, just put a woman around him. No matter how smart he thinks he is, that woman will finish him within a week max! Ask from Samson, the most powerful man in Israel at that time! You can't handle a woman hell bent on destroying you! You need to set boundaries brother! There you are in a sister's room at 11 pm doing Bible study together on a cold, rainy night and you are holding hands praying together right on her bed! What the hell do you think you are doing? And you still tell me you are smart? Story for the fools!!

Bottom line, to stay sexually pure even in courtship, know your limit. Set boundaries. Avoid unnecessary closeness to the opposite sex. Don't use emotional/sexual words that scatter the other person's brain and you believe all is well.

Have a mentor you are accountable to. Always watch your feelings, don't allow it to wander where it should not.
Stop crushing on your boss, he is married for God's sake! Why are you alway's thinking about your bestie's wife's behind, what is the problem? That guy is already engaged, stop sending him signals.

Your visit to the opposite sex should end by 7pm max. 6pm is better. All pet names should be reserved for your future spouse. What you will not eat, don't bring it down to your nose. Stay out of trouble.

May the Lord grant you the wisdom to do what is right always in Jesus name. 

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

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